Why people failed to attract the ones they wanted?
The answer to this question is not difficult at all, it has to do with how people go about it and their belief system about attraction. The kind of beliefs we hold concerning love influenced our courage and the ability to draw a potential partner.For example, thinking that you need to be resourceful before you can be loved hinders your chances. You can attract a potential partner to yourself without having to go beyond who you are.
So Here are the Main
steps Mentioned to make someone fall in love with you :
- Look for his/her subconscious criteria and match them: Before I tell you how to make someone fall for you, you must first know the things that make us fall in love and few things about the person's love criteria (What he/she likes in a mate). Matching a person's criteria is nothing more than noticing few internal and external factors about his love criteria and what he likes about himself and in a mate and appear to be a perfect match for him. On the other hand, watch out for the things he hates about himself. For example, if you noticed that he is suffering from self-confidence etc, then appearing to be a confident person will make him fall for you.
- Have what He/she need : when people search for a partner they unconsciously try to find someone who has similar traits to the ones they like about themselves and different traits than the ones they hate about themselves. For example if someone who feels inferior but was very intelligent then he will seek an intelligent and a confident partner. If this was the person you are targeting then playing the role of an incredibly confident person can be very effective simply because you will be sending a message to his/her mind saying “I have what you need”. In addition try to do your best to show him that you have some common interests (don't lie, just search for what’s common between you).
- Program his/her mind: Programming someone's mind is nothing than staying at his sight. This is because, when we start seeing someone for an extended period of time, we tend to develop love and affection for the person. This is the same reason why a child would dearly love his mother simply so because the child sees her more often than anyone. As you can see by staying at your victim's sight will make him not only notice you but start developing interest as well.
- Make enough eyes contact: In my book How to make someone fall in love with you (Based on psychology and human behavioral science), I said that when staring at someone for a longer time (the opposite sex), we indirectly send out two massages: The first massage is that you find him/her interesting and the second signal is that you have something to share. This acts as a kick starter because by the time you want to express yourself, he/she must have already known the subject.
- Use close ones to program his mind: If you were walking in the street and someone come up to you and say you are a perfect match for his friend, most likely you won't believe him. Now, what happens if he/she was your best friend? You will start considering what he is saying since the information came from a trusted source. So if you can managed to use someone close to your victim then your victim will perceive you as a real match. The person does not necessary have to tell a story or your trendy biography but just by making some praises of you, recommending you, referring you as a nice and handsome/beautiful person etc. That’s all.
- Who does she/he love? One of the love criteria our subconscious mind has is that we unconsciously fall in love with those who have the similarities to the people whom we love. So if you noticed that your victim loves his mother then appearing to behave like his mother will let him fall for you.
- Be needy:
One of the biggest mistakes people do when trying to impress or make
someone fall in love with them is that, they allow themselves to be over
available. I am not totally against that but being over available when
trying to win someone's love is like sending the wrong signal. If you
managed to convince your victim that you’re highly needed by other
boys/girls, your perceive attractiveness will increased.
Please don’t misuse this Information
This kind of information should only be used when you are serious about a relationship and not when you intend to play around. Please be grown up enough to know that people have got feelings and that hurting their feelings just to feel victorious is something that is far from being right.
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