What Is an Alpha Male?
Alpha male is an
expression used for a man that is considered to be a group leader and
very often successful with women. It can be about looks but often is
more about the way they behave and act when in company. Any man who is
confident enough in his own ability can become a leader and very often
this is the case in the world of work. Knowing how to make your view
known and argue against the view of others is likely to get the man a
leadership role. It does not have to be a violent action that works but
just strength of personality.
1. Fill the holes in your belief system.
If you are uncertain of what you believe in and why you believe in it, now is the time to solidify your boundaries. Nothing is wrong with critical thinking and you can always change your beliefs down the road. But know the reasons you are doing the things you do. This means having a personal code and living by it. Whether it is religious or whether it is secular, define what makes you happy and stick to your path.
2. Adaptability.
One of the hardest attributes to learn, adaptability is as close to being an instinctual and inherent quality as I like to think is possible. Adaptability, and your comfort with it, will accumulate as you continue to have personal experiences. To work on your adapability, throw yourself in a variety of experiences that you are unfamiliar with. You will become more comfortable handling the unknown, as well as pick up on maladaptive patterns for self-correction.3. Live in the present moment.
” Now is all we have”By being present and not thinking about the past or future you begin to base your decision making on instinct. In fact, more often than not your instincts will tell you the right decision to make. Often past experience and worrying hinders your decision making ability. Live in the moment.